TYPES OF WOMEN

I have come to realize that in life, love and relationships there are two types of women. Sure there may be more but I choose to focus on two today. I think we as women must all be honest and say at one point in our growing up, that we've been both types.

The Party Girl- The first girl is the party girl. This is the girl that men choose to date when they are in conflict with themselves over growing up. Or these are the girls they date when they are in college or want to act like they are. LOL.This is not the permanent fixture and this girl may actually take them away from their normal life or responsibility and commitment. You ever heard the saying "For a good time call ________." Precisely. This girl is young, dumb, doesn't require much, and therefore the guy gets away with a lot. How do you know if you are the "party girl?" Easy. I have composed a list.

1. The only places your "man" takes you is the club, bar, or some type of party. Thats IF you go out at all. He is typically drunk or ready to get drunk when he sees you.

2. Most of your time spent with your "man" is in the bed having sex.

3. Your "man" does not take you to important functions like weddings, baby showers, engagement parties, etc. He does not display you as his girlfriend tothose that matter most to him.

4. You and him have been kicking it for a while yet he has never introduced you as his WOMAN to his mother and/or father. And you are too content to notice. No family dinners for you babe.

5. Your "man" attends an important milestone in your life yet brings no gift. What I mean by gift is jewelry, perhaps a trip, maybe a shopping spree, a concert, you get the idea. At most he may stop at some store on the way and pick up some flowers. The same flowers he got his coworker last week. Again you don't even notice.

6. Your "man" has never uttered the words "i love you". You may have said it several times and he just brushes your ass right off.

7. Your "man" does not think you all are in a relationship and still refers to himself as single, yet your dumb ass done already carved a heart in a tree!

8. There is no talk of long term or marriage,living together or anything of that nature.

These are clear cut signs that you are the PARTY GIRL. Please know that your position is temporary. If this is the position you like, then by all means play it! Sometimes we as women don't want anything serious, we just want to party.

The Wife- The wife/wifey as the young kids say,lol is the second type. Now this position is not always fun b/c the wife means responsibility and commitment. The wife doesn't put up with bullshit and sometimes men can't handle that. But when they are ready, this is the one he brings home to mama and down the aisle. This woman carries herself with class. No falling out drunk in public for her. Nogrinding on random men on the dance floor. Always put together when she walks out the house. But you better believe she takes care of home. Men know this woman immediately and may take her home to meet mama after 3 months. Soon after she's having Christmas dinner with the family. Trust me, you KNOW when you are the wife. Even if a party girl manages to slide her ass up in the mix, you don't worry b/c you recognize the signs. You know at the end of the day he will come home, now whether or not you let his ass in is another story for another day. lol

1. The wife is on the same level as "her" man. No dependant little girl over here.Oh no, she is making just as much if not more than her "man". He recognizes that she can do for herself but he likes doing for her as well.

2. This woman is all up in the family. Not only does she know mama, but she speaks to her often. Mama already picked out which dress she wearing to the wedding! LOL

3. There are long deep conversations about marriage, kids, finances, education, etc.

4. You take trips together. He surprises you with shopping, fancy dinners, gifts, etc.

5. He tells you he loves you in more ways than one.

6. He isn't afraid to bring you to weddings,or around his close friends, etc.

7. His world is not the same without you in it. If you even looked like you were walking out of it he would drop whomever/whatever to get you back.

8. Little parties/bars/clubs aren't good enough for his WIFE, but you all hang out there occasionally. Maybe in another state or country.

9. The wife never has any doubt about her position, but if you do, she'll let your ass know in a hearbeat, if he doesn't do it first.

Hopefully all women get to a point in life where being the party girl gets old. You grow up.

Thats all for

now.